everything you may be wondering
(these are our most frequently asked questions)
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We are a modern girlhood collective designed to help women build friendships, connect and feel part of something again through our online spaces, live gatherings and book club.
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Our collective is designed exclusively for women in their 20s, 30s and beyond who are looking to make friends, connect with others and experience girlhood in a way that feels real.
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Not at all! Many people join on their own.
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Absolutely! If you’re joining our girlhood circle or bookworm club and would like to be added to the same community circle please send us an email and we’ll be more than happy to add you both into the same group.
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Keeping our collective safe, respectful and supportive is at the heart of everything we’re building.
TLHC is a women’s only space and safeguarding is our upmost priority. We have active moderation across all community spaces alongside clear guidelines and terms around behaviour, respect and boundaries.
We also offer a confidential, anonymous reporting system in place, allowing members to raise any concerns with us direct. Any behaviour that goes against our values or guidelines or disrupts the community will be addressed and where necessary access to the space will be removed.
In certain situations where we have concerns around the safety or authenticity of a member we may take additional steps to verify accounts to help protect the community.
Above all, this is a space designed for you to feel comfortable, respected and safe, always.
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Currently all of our girlhood gatherings are online and hosted live through Zoom.
In person gatherings are coming soon!
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Our girlhood circle is our onling community space which runs through a private Discord server. On joining, you will be added into a small, intimate group setting of 15 women with weekly prompts and conversation designed to help you connect naturally with one another.
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Our girlhood circle and bookworm club run on a monthly (or yearly) subscription basis.
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Yes. All of our girlhood gatherings are pay as you go meaning you can pay for the events you want to attend, when you want to attend them with no recurring subscription fees.
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The Girlhood Circle and Bookworm Club runs as a monthly rolling subscription as standard giving you ongoing access to your group space, weekly prompts and the wider community.
You can join at any time and your subscription will renew monthly, with the flexibility to cancel whenever you feel ready, given that this is done at least 7 days before your next billing period. You can manage your subscription at any time through your online account, alternatively please email us and we will be happy to help!
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Most gatherings are capped at 15, with smaller healer-led events between 8–12. You can see the available spaces for each gathering on the individual event listing.
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That’s completely normal! We welcome everyone to join in at their own pace, whether that’s joining quietly to begin with or jumping right in. Take your time and go at your own speed. There is no pressure to show up in any particular way.